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:: Effective listeners remember that 'words have no meaning - people have meaning.' The assignment of meaning to a term is an internal process; meaning comes from inside us. And although our experiences, knowledge and attitudes differ, we often misinterpret each others' messages while under the illusion that a common understanding has been achieved :: - Larry Baker
This week was filled with many words and many sounds. I heard the strength as well as the anxiety of my New Orleans friends through their status updates as Hurricane Isaac roared closer and closer. I heard encouragement as Team Rokit soothed me back into non-smoking mode. I heard myself described as someone I didn't recognize, and heard myself perseverating on those words, wondering if I understood their intent correctly.
Today, I took a rest from listening. That's a huge struggle for a professional listener, and quiet is not a word that exist in my Mexico. Yet, Saturdays in Merida, during siesta, if one takes full advantage, it is possible to cocoon, and spoon if you have a lover, into the folds of a hammock.
Today's Secret Message of Love :
Make a space to rest.
Materials:
- You
- A comfortable bed, hammock, sofa, or reclining chair.
- A drawstring bag, large enough to accommodate a bottle of wine.
- A cup of various herbs. See Process below.
- Pen or pencil.
- A beautiful journal.
Process:
- There are many websites that offer herbal blends for sleeping pillows. This list is best for stress reduction: a 1/4 c rose petals, a 1/4 c lavender flowers, a 1/4 c of rosemary, and a 1/4 c of peppermint or spearmint leaves.
- If you can't find these already dry, select fresh herbs for drying from your garden or local grocery. You will need at least two bundles of each herb.
- Fresh herbs from the grocer come tied in a bundle. Place each bundle, upside down, into individual paper sacks. Secure the papered stems to a hanger, and place in a dark closet. Your herbs should be dry between 4-7 days depending upon climate.
- Remove the leaves and flowers from their stems.
- Place the herbs inside the drawstring bag and secure.
- If you prefer non-synthetic fabric, make a drawstring bag from a well worn piece of cloth, such as a tea towel.
- Embroider a word on the drawstring bag that invokes a sense of peace.
Conclusions:
You deserve to set time aside to rejuvenate. Listening to your inner voice is easier when you feel calm and rested. Use the Broad Dream Notes as a guide for processing any sounds and images that accompanied your rest.
Create the life you want!
The Broad
You are so right. Before I was forced to leave work due to my diagnosis, I never realized how much being a professional listener had impacted me. Having time to rest and re-evaluate my path has been a very rough but needed skull drag to enlightenment.Love the sleep pillow recipe, I'm going to make one today.
ReplyDeleteSend a picture Merilee! Would love to see some of the projects. Love hearing that this project hold power for you! Hugs
ReplyDeleteI used to make sleep pillows for friends from old handkerchiefs. Sometimes when I'm completely stressed, but have work to do, I sit and look out the window with a bottle of peppermint essential oil. It calms me and gives me energy to continue. I prefer the hammock (or featherbed for the moment) life, but whatever the circumstances, the scent of herbs makes just about everything better.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more. I have one that my daughter made when she was a Girl Scout, It is at least 10 years old and still smells amazing! xx
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